My wife has gained 30-40 pounds during this pandemic, and I love it! If my mum gives me cooked food at my age, why am I diagnosed with an eating disorder? My wife began to gain a little weight after we were married, from 125 to 155 after the first 2 years. I love having a takeaway once or twice a week. Yeah maybe. You loved him previously, and Im virtually certain you still love him now. Weve been together three years. It really burns their skinny little a**** when they see how devoted I am to my beautiful, enormous, princess. We have been married for 28 years. It's easy to think that if our boyfriend tells us that either he doesn't believe in marriage or he doesn't want to get married that he's going to change his mind. The relationship is so much better not to mention the s** just gets better and better. Well, a year ago, I gots preggo, and the doctor's like, I gots to loose weight, cuz I was like 320 pounds and He says its gonna be a prob for the pregancy. His legs and arms are still quite lean. Being around him is never fun. They'd hate it!!!!! After 1-2hrs you get off, they leave, and there's no clingy phonecalls, stalking or emotional problems like you would get trying to do this with somebody online or in a nightclub. Time to do some more porking! Finally a Fat Boyfriend. I can eat what I want when I want and my husband don't mind. link to Fat people | My Husband makes comments about my weight. I told her she could never be too fat for my liking and right then she said then she would grow for me and now she is a a beautiful 709 pound beauty and still stuffing herself with all the fattening foods that I buy for her. Visualize something positive in your life, rather than focusing on what your husband just said. I write about; Fat people, Im fat, and I'm tired of being fat, what has worked for me to lose weight, the things I've learned about how hard it is, and the problems with that. Maybe seeing my words will help me assess the situation. Maybe I can recognize that I could be a negative influence. She gave birth to a 10 pound baby and she lost maybe around 15 with the birth but started gaining again shortly after. I should probably just say to h*** with it and just let them eat and be big and fat. About a year later we got married, and she was around 225. I'm retired! # 1091037. As far as you know right now, hes worth it and the relationship is worth it. It makes a lot of sense for your attraction to have dipped. In the first year she gained almost 30 pounds. 2. No I take partial responsibility. I tell him he's gorgeous and perfect. They are wonderful in every way! Dear Sugars, I've been with my boyfriend for more than two years. Mutual gaining is fantastic. They seem to be accepted by their peers. No way jose! After 5 years of marriage, he now weighs 360 pounds with a 60 inch waistline. I am guess a chubby chaser. Just like some people are attracted to a gym rat and that mentality, others are attracted to a soft body and that mentality. Privacy Policy. My libido has skyrocketed, we have more intense sex. I wanted to share with her my preference for her to continue to gain. Just please do not take that out on him or his body. Has his thing shrunk? If it bothers you, you will always be mad atHim for encouraging you to pack on some pounds. Finding clothing for obese children is a challenge but my wife handles that. Does it mean I never loved him? Different body type now and I find it extremely alluring and sexy. I asked him if he wanted me to gain weight and he said he wouldnt mind a few extra pounds. The first time I saw him shirtless, my jaw dropped. There are some advantages to living life with a little extra weight. I hope she gains another 100 putting her close to 380 pounds. I'm at 250 now, heaviest I've ever been. Once you have the percentage, compare it with the recommended percentage of body fats (10%-20% for healthy men, 18%-28% for women), and if it is more than these ranges (though he has a normal weight), your husband is skinny fat. I hope he still gains in the coming years. Privacy Policy. About 7 months ago I met this very sexy girl who is quite tall at 5'10" and so much fun and weighs 476 as of 5 days ago. We dont need to unite here - were already everywhere! Its very important to me that we take care of ourselves and this is part of that. You can also bring up how you feel you havent been having sex as much recently and wanting to change that. They say you dont have to finish it all, which means we have to finish it all. =( I feel so guilty for enjoying this. But more skinny than fat. Happy gaining! But: He's fat. My gf compares me to Thiccollegegirl, especially cause my belly sticks out so much. So if the doctor has said that your husband has obesity health risks and you didnt fully understand what they mean by skinny fat, now you know why. I'm now close to 300 pounds. The same could be asked of thin people and some of the toxic culture and expectations around always being extremely in shape. Outstanding! 806 8067 22 Registered Office: Imperial House, 2nd Floor, 40-42 Queens Road, Brighton, East Sussex, BN1 3XB, Taking a break or withdrawing from your course, MPhil Economics/Economic Research Cambridge 2023, Official UCL 2023 Undergraduate Applicants Thread. What justification do people have for imposing that type of stress on someone? I made sure to wear a slightly too small shirt so it kept sliding up over my belly a little and I had to keep pulling it down. I like the way I look, but my present boyfriend is encouraging me to take off some weight. My wife is plump, almost obese, I started to get a bit of a roll, as of late, she reached over, a few days ago, grabbed my baby bulge and said How cute, must be the mud pie and other deserts, I am proud of you. Now, I am very fit, or was, in the last year, still workout hard, but the bulge is growing. It would be wonderful if we didnt ascribe any meaning at all to someones weight. Don't deny your self just to follow what she wants either. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I suppose I will stop when i start to have negative health, like blood pressure going up or similar. My beautiful wife was never a waif. Its not my hubby getting fat, its me!! But hes far less active than he used to be and hes grown out of all his clothes while Ive managed to stay in pretty good shape. If he has a health issue, thats for him and his doctor to discuss NOT you. I met my hubby at gym. An my baby girl, she gonna be nice an plump too! Lots of ice cream, desserts and soft drinks. I couldn't believe that was the guy I was about to sleep with. But life happens and with work and kids and the house it is only natural that he got bigger. Over the first year, I increased his portion sizes and at our first anniversary he weighed in at 250, a 70 pound gain. I don't like feeling his bones. Anonymous confessions, stories and advice. My boyfriend is part of the reason why I have got so fat. I love him and he still provides well. I'll start off by saying that I am madly in love with my boyfriend. I thought I was the only one with a wife like that. no dibetes or nothin. So since then it's been eat, eat, eat and it's been wonderful so far. This should be obvious. Probably just living the life of an average American woman at this point and the pounds have just come on. I had finally reached my goal weight of 98 pounds. Great job darling- a man should have what he needs! I just went up to a size 48/30 jeans! Its been 4 years and we're married now and i've gained 100 pounds, yet he still keeps feeding me, giving me larger portions and more dessert than ever because he wants me to get to 400 pounds, which is fine with me cuz now i just, like, don't care anymore about how hevy i am. Yeah, I gained during the pandemic, then added to that. Plenty of fit people are unhealthy. Well, if you dont mind how he physically looks or feels (although part of you sounds jealous because you have stayed in shape for him), then I would suggest telling him that he is still attractive and you dont mind his extra weight, but that you want him to start trying to be more active and healthy (not necessarily lose weight) and say you can work on it together. I also say "Your b.o.o.b.s are bigger than mine!" Drink some more soda than before. And Im waddling more now than ever. She probably also gets turned on by seeing your fat butt waddle around her house. Avoid having serious conversations with him. That doesnt make you a bad person. We'all think he looks like a real healthy plump boy. She has had some good luck with a few online specialty retailers. i'm like, oooo baby! There is only one issue that has become increasingly difficult to deal with: he is rapidly gaining weight. Stop reducing us and trying to explain away our existence. How does she feel about it? When you were singles seeking a mate, you knew you needed to maintain your appeal . Im the same way. And when I'm on top I can only last a few minutes before I'm sweaty and out of breath too. The latter. I want to marry you and keep you all big and fat. Bloated belly rubs are amazing, both for the person with the chubby belly and the person getting to love and rub on it. Oh, I'm average height (5 ft 7). Whenever I observe how fat Ive gotten, my wife just raises her eyebrows and smiles seductively. Really, I didn't realize there was s special membership for making comments. Now you know why skinny fat is dangerous and what you should do to help your husband overcome it. Should I tell him? . Safe words are another great solution. Ladies, its not the worst thing to have a bigger guy in your life. Unfortunately, your boyfriend is one of them. I agree! If you cook, start making more caloric meals--lots of carbs and fat. I'm very glad to hear that you and your children enjoy eating and being fat. FWIW, he was pretty thin before, and he's now a few pounds shy of 200, apparently. The s** is fantastic. I am successful, greedy, indulgent, fatter than ever, and answer to piggy. I can hardly wait until I hit 300. Who is shaming you? My boyfriend and I have been dating about 3 almost 4 months now. I upsized hubby's pants two sizes for the three week honeymoon and made sure he had plenty of food close by at all times. How much do you miss being slim and skinny? For more information, please see our If hes defensive, thats understandable, if frustrating. Have fun! I talked for a long time and don't remember everything I said but the energy was, "I am awesome, I am doing the best I can, and my . My hubby seems to really enjoy my gain as well. If you did get fat, how do you think others would react? Seriously. Do you feel bad about how you feel about him fattening up? A lot! I know it's not good for you but I am having fun with it and figure I can lose if any health problems show up. If all goes to plan, he'll run the whole way there. My wife always seemed to like me in good muscular shape, but when I accidentally grew a huge belly, she seemed to keep feeding me even more and certainly seemed turned on by the much fatter husband she now had. Fat man, chubby, fat ass, lard ass, tub..I answer to all of them. I think they're crazy and completely insensitive. Then snuggle him and let him crush you with his pounds while, you knowfat boy s**! I purposely dont go to the doctor so he leaves me alone, and when I shows up in my 9th month, i f ucking nearly pass out when he sees me. She seemed so confused with how Fat I became and continued to grow she didnt even seem to mind that she was now the heaviest she had ever been as well. Thats great!). I never really wanted to gain but secretly love how he looks at me, rubs my body, and ultimately fantasize him feeding me. Your boyfriend's consistent remarks about being fat indicate that he feels uneasy about himself and may be looking for validation to feel better about himself, at least temporarily. He's grown out of some of his clothes, he's got a noticeable double chin, he has a round belly, chubby cheeks, even his chest is softening up. So I've embraced being fat and I love my husband a lot i don't want him to look elsewhere . Just don't take it out on him or his body. He is so beautifully big bellied now, that it's affecting his abilities to do certain s ex positions, which I find so hot. 5. My life is sooo ******* sad, ask me anything. We even talked about marriage in first year . Unfortunately when my wife wants her favorite high fat, high carb foods, the kids want to eat that as well and telling children that young that they cannot have what mommy is having or what their friends are having is kind of difficult. Dunno, half and half I guess. Just set clear boundaries. Dinner is actually in 10 minutes! Say yes and gain as much as possible. Include 2.4kg of protein per kg of his body weight in the diet for the same reason. How much have you gained? But once she had one, I think she was pleased with how I feel. Shell order a big dish herself then casually slide her remaining portion my way. I realized I started finding this to be very attractive because now I get obsessed about what he eats. Liver is one of the key organs in the body which removes toxins and helps break down fats to make them digestible. Without a healthy s e x life, he wouldnt have doubled his weight so quickly (3 years). Im always happy to hear about folks like us. My boyfriend is like the complete physical opposite of me. Im not sure if shes stepped up her efforts, or if Im just finally tuned in. Good for you. You need to let her do what makes her feel happy. You can't force someone to have the same kinks as you. Honestly, I didnt notice it before. Shes only 598lbs but she loves to eat and has no desire to stop gaining. Now, she says, his 6-ft.-1-inch frame is "more than a little fleshy and mushy" and the weight . No. I like my men very chubby, so I kept feeding him up. Ice cream and cheesecake are cocaine to us fat men. At first glance you can imagine m. I can't wait to wake up and see my fat beautiful wife every morning and every night we have wonderful s**. If you do not receive your email shortly, please check your spam folder. But her subtle encouragement has spoken volumes. Im not mad at him encouraging me to gain weight. Official Oxford 2023 Postgraduate Applicants Thread, How to handle colleague/former friend rejection again, Official Cambridge Postgraduate Applicants 2023 Thread, The Cambridge College Hurt/Heal Game [part 2], Andrew Tate arrested for human trafficking, are there more doors or wheels in the world, The Official Love Island Thread Winter 2023, History NEA- John Guy Historian validity and analysis. Nothing like 200 pounds of jiggly fat to announce TAKEN!. My Ex Wants To Get Back Together. Im no longer physically attracted to him, and I feel horrible about it. Shes probably added 30 pounds in the last 2 years. 1. If youre in the middle of a hurricane, for example, you might not be like, Damn, my husband Harold has really sexy calves, even if they normally get you going. I'm not that tall so it's a lot - I'm 5'7 and at the moment I weigh 234 pounds. I think this is common in straight dating generally, but there's additional pressure for fat women to have sex or be sexual during the get-to-know-you stage. . Huffing and puffing getting dressed while I massage her fat side rolls. Sophie-X. I love his weight on me when we f uck, but now it's getting hard for us to fit except for certain positions, but we make it work! The looks we get are priceless and I can tell they are based in jealousy. He just keeps eating. Thats when it really gets fun. Yep . This I took as my opening to tell her why I was attracted to her in the first place. No, instead of focusing on cutting, nutritionists recommend bulking up for people with skinny fat to avoid additional health complications. For more information, please see our This one is different. than similar people who are thin. I started at about 200 after gaining 30lbs from COVID, I think that's what encouraged her to ask me to gain weight. Or she just loves you, wants you to be happy and doesnt care about your marriage waddle. mmmmmmmm Anita G. Last week my chubby hubby called me, he needed a seat belt extender on a flight. Like I said, it took some pressure off to know how he felt. Its not always bad to be heavier. Same here. All I can think of when he does that is this is how its going to be from now on. If you do, you shouldnt. Both my daughters were around 80 pounds when they were 2. chapter 1 - skinny. We have been married for 16 years and we have 2 children, 14 and 12. You want him to like himself as much as you . Love love love that belly of his pressing onto mine!!! Has she said anything about it yet? She loves to tease me with saying I think I need to gain a few 100 pounds and it's an honest statement because she says please feed me some more. That was a little over a year ago and now I have a 520lb wife and a 2 little girls that very much take after their mom. I'm going to sit on my fat ass and eat until I can barely walk. In that case, you probably like the way he is getting fat. That is why unless you get regular health check-ups, you probably wont be able to know. No more worry over appearance and weight. Today, I came across yet another headline (rudely) asking if my boyfriend was making me fat.. I understand it's a "fetish" but what justifications would you give to particpating or encouraging it? I spent enough time growing it! My favorite part is when my wife is winded on the stairs and needs to stop to catch her breath. W / Women Now True story: "I gained 20kg to please my fat-loving boyfriend" Clara* was slim all her life, but falling in love with a man who preferred chubby women put her on the path to weight gain - and she says she has no regrets I'm willing to bet, though, that vary soon the real goal will be 400. On our tenth anniversary she was 295 lbs, and on our 20th she weighed 360. Buying him things that are too large helps, and encouraging him to wear sweatpants on weekend so he can eat all he wants but his pants won't be tight. I thought I was crazy or some kind of pervert.. but it seems the love of big woman is quite normal. My suggestion is to talk about it and if both of you can't come to an agreement and it doesn't sound like you're meant to be together. By this time she was around 370 and proceeded to gain another 100lbs despite the fact that her OBGYN put her on a pretty strict diet which she obviously not follow. The lesson here is guys, if you want a fat wife find a fat girl who is comfortable in her own skin. Fat isnt always bad. Dont worry about it, baby! Is your husband or boyfriend fat? He's about 6'1 or 6'2" I think. Whether it is actresses blowing up after pregnancy or menopause or billionaires with bulging bellies inflating with fat. Now she saggy and I'm kinda lost interest. My cooking is too good! My husband is getting fat. He doesn't like the extra weight on him, but he seems to like when I grab his belly and moobs. Any idea on where you will stop? Shell offer seconds or keep sweets around knowing I cant help myself. I just want to tell him, because it's better for his health and his self esteem, but I don't know how to start the conversation or if I should tell him. I need you to talk to a doctor about this. He's probably gained about 2/3 stone since then and now it's getting to the point where he is visibly fat and there are rolls. And always provide dessert. She is easiky twice the weight of her closest chubby classmate. skinny fat is also a result of excessive stress because a hormone called cortisol would increase in the body, leading to insulin resistance and eventually fat gain. If she likes to snack, have lots of them around. he has a fetish for big girls . In simpler words, just because you look skinny and think that you have a healthy body does not mean you are fully healthy because of skinny fat. 2. According to a new survey, he is. I thought to myself, f uck that, I gots preggo, now I's gonna really enjoy and pork out. I just love seeing someone have little control of some aspect of their lives. I have always felt fat, but by America's standards, I am very underweight. THIS IS GOING TO KILL YOU!!! Is finding clothes for them a challenge? Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. Her sweet tooth is out of control, and I make sure it stays that way by having a constant supply of her favorites on hand at all times. I've had real arguments with my friends about it. Obviously he loves you getting fatter! Just not as much gym time. Stay out of discussions you dont belong in. My boyfriend is getting fat and I like it. And glad I didnt figure out she likes me big year ago. He wants to keep you for himself - He is obsessed with you and wants to ensure that you stay with him forever. We've been together 2 years and when we first started going out he was skinny fat. It always becomes insanely Unhealthy. I want to tell him, confess how I love his body, and I don't want him to starve himself. until I eat it all. A link that will let you reset your password has been emailed to you. Just something I never told anyone. Love fat women, they just look so good. Listen to what he says and how he responds. Say yes, and gain a few pounds, but don't overdo it. 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